I welcome individuals of all ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and body types. Regarding age, I find I am most compatible with individuals over the age of 30, though I am open to considering those who are younger, so long as I am met with the level of respect and reverence I require. Please note that you must be over the age of 25 to be considered for an in-person rendezvous. If you are between the ages of 21 and 25 and curious about serving Me, you may begin by serving Me virtually.

My personal safety and wellbeing are paramount. Screening is mandatory for all prospective new playmates and submissives—no exceptions. If you’ve previously served Me online and wish to serve Me in person as well, it is still necessary that you submit screening information to be considered. Privacy and discretion are very important to Me, and all personal information is handled with the utmost care, through encrypted forms and email. If you are not willing to comply with My screening protocol, do not bother submitting an application, as it will be ignored. If you would like to remain anonymous, there are many other ways to serve, spoil, and worship Me virtually.

• As with most things worth doing in life, engaging in BDSM comes with a certain amount of risk. I practice RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), and all activities we engage in are consensual, mutually agreed upon, and include the use of safewords. Choosing to participate in BDSM with Me means that you are choosing to proceed with the awareness and understanding of the potential risks involved, and your personal responsibility as a consenting party.

• If you wish to begin a connection with Me, it is of course paramount that you revere My dominion and you conduct yourself in a humble and deferential manner at all times, from the moment you first contact Me. Within our mutually agreed-upon parameters I require your complete and total subservience. Submitting to Me means you agree to My terms, play by My rules, and satisfy all My wishes. The natural consequence of poor behavior is having your access revoked.

• I require that you refrain from heavy drinking or using hard drugs during (or immediately prior to) our engagement. I'm ok with light cannabis usage beforehand, or a single drink during a dinner date, but anything beyond that is a hard limit. If you arrive intoxicated or I suspect that you’re under the influence, you will be swiftly dismissed after paying the full investment for My time.

• While BDSM can be healing and cathartic, and I very much believe in D/s as a practice that supports personal development and self-actualization, our dynamic is not a substitute for professional mental healthcare. I am not a therapist and I am not the right place to start if you’re at the very beginning of your trauma-healing journey. I am, however, a huge proponent of mental healthcare, and those who wish to enter into a long-term D/s contract with Me must be engaged in some kind of ongoing therapy (specifically with a sex-positive kink-aware trauma-informed mental health professional) in order to be considered.

I accept pre-booked in-person engagements in the Bay Area Wednesday through Saturday between the hours of noon and 10pm, on a limited basis.

I live a very full life and I accept a finite number of engagements per month. If you desire an audience with Me it's necessary that you plan accordingly. It’s common for My calendar to book out at least 3 weeks in advance, so the more notice you give, the more likely I will have time open in My schedule on your preferred day.

Please note that I am never available for same-day requests. I require at least 48 hrs notice to consider your inquiry…however, on very rare occurrences—which depend on My availability and your enthusiasm to reserve My time at a very high premium—next-day (24 hrs notice) requests for Bay Area rendezvous may be considered.

If you happen to find yourself visiting My area only on a day that is outside of My regular schedule, or a time outside of My normal availability, I can sometimes accommodate with sufficient notice—however, because these days and times are reserved for My numerous personal commitments and business ventures, any encounters scheduled during these days or times require a significant additional investment on your part to make the reorganization of My schedule truly worth My while.

Please be advised that My investment requirements are non-negotiable.

Virtual sessions: Investments must be pre-paid in full to reserve a time on My calendar. Payments for virtual sessions are non-refundable.

Rendezvous: A non-refundable deposit of 50% is always required in order to secure an in-person engagement—no exceptions. Your deposit must be submitted before any negotiation takes place. I will only invest My time and energy in planning our encounter once you’ve invested at the level I require. If you're feeling unsure about booking an in-person engagement, I recommend scheduling a virtual consultation call or serving Me virtually to acquaint yourself with My approach and demeanor.

When submitting a payment or tribute simply write "Thank You" or “Gift” in the note section. Do not reference BDSM, or use the words “Session” or “Tribute”, or any other similarly indiscreet language.

In the event that you need to reschedule, your deposit is transferable so long as you adhere to My cancellation and rescheduling policies.

Should you need to reschedule, I require at least 48 hrs notice to apply your deposit to a future engagement, to be completed within the next 2 months.

Cancellations with less than 48 hrs notice will result in loss of deposit. Cancellations with less than 24 hrs notice will result in 100% of the total due. Failure to pay a cancellation balance will result in a blacklist.

In the very unlikely event that I must reschedule, your deposit will be applied to a future engagement (so long as you’re able to schedule within 6 months of the original date). If we will not be able to see one another within 6 months, your deposit will be refunded in full.

If we’re spending private time together I prefer to host engagements at boutique and upscale hotels in San Francisco. Additional room fees apply. If a fully-equipped dungeon environment would best serve our purpose, we’ll be meeting at a gorgeous dungeon space in Oakland’s Lake Merritt neighborhood. Additional $70/hr dungeon rental fee applies.

I’m also available to meet at your upscale hotel suite, so long as you are a current sub or playmate of proven rapport, or a new suitor with current and glowing references from multiple reputable industry professionals. Additional fees apply, based on location.

For sessions offered during travel outside of San Francisco I am available to host at upscale and boutique hotels in the city I’m visiting. Additional room fees apply.

If you happen to use a wheelchair or scooter and would like to meet for an in-person rendezvous, it would be best to meet at an accessible hotel, as the dungeon space I utilize is not fully accessible.

Please note that I do not provide a scent-free experience. I am a highly olfactory person, and a lover of fragrances and aromatherapy. I am often told how incredible I smell, and I’ve found that those who love fragrances as much as I do simply cannot help but inhale more deeply in My presence. Additionally scent is one of My favorite senses to play with in BDSM experience curation, and aromas are often incorporated into My play (even if it’s just the soft perfume of My skin and pheromones) to intentionally imprint your limbic system while creating an immersive sensory experience.

I am vaccinated and if you wish to meet Me in person (for any encounter other than a Cash Meet, Meet & Greet, or Shopping Excursion), I require that you are as well. You must submit proof of vaccination prior to the day of our engagement. I’m tested frequently and recommend that you get tested in the days before we've planned to meet. If further precautions are necessary, we can be masked during our time together. I may choose to be masked even if you are not. If either of us happens to feel any cold or flu-like symptoms within 72 hours prior to our appointment, our time together will be rescheduled.