True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.

-Henry Miller

BECOMING MY SUBMISSIVE


Long-term lifestyle servitude requires a certain level of security, commitment, and excellence. The privilege of serving in My inner circle is reserved for those rare submissive gems who dedicate themselves to putting in the work required to build ongoing trust and rapport, and—through their means, drive, and unwavering devotion—are able to prove themselves an asset to My Domain. How? They consistently allocate their resources (capital, time, energy) and utilize their unique personal skill sets in ways that enhance My quality of life and add to My peace, power, and prosperity.

If you are not yet ready for a commitment of this extent, but still wish to be of service to Me, you may consider the options listed here, or become an ongoing patron.

For best results, ensure that you’ve done the following before filling out My long-term submissive application…

Prepare

Take the time to thoroughly read and digest My website in its entirety. For an uncensored lens into My lifestyle and My FemDom philosophy, visit My Virtual House of Worship, read through all My past writings, and listen to My audio recordings. Beginning your submission virtually and taking initiative to serve in a way that will make Me notice you prior to applying is generally the best course of action. If you have questions about ongoing D/s, booking a Virtual Meet & Greet is also an excellent way to learn more about My practice and lifestyle.

Ponder

Considering your motivations and objectives is essential. Why exactly are you here and how do you endeavor to be of relevant service to Me? How do you intend to add value and contribute to My life? What skills and talents do you have, and would they be of use in My Domain? FemDom S

What is your perspective on submission, and is it aligned with what I’m looking for in those who would become My submissives? Do you possess the mindset necessary to truly serve and worship the Feminine? If not, consider whether you have the willingness and capacity to surrender, open your mind, and allow your perspective to shift in order to align yourself with My values and desires.

A long-term D/s dynamic with Me is an investment in your personal development and spiritual advancement. I’m extensively invested in My own growth and self-development, and the key to a fulfilling and enduring connection with Me depends both on your ability to keep up with the pace at which I’m evolving, and how deeply you’re able to surrender to the journey I’ll take you on. Consider whether or not you are prepared to do the inner work this entails. Are you prepared for the transformation that submitting to Me will initiate in you? Are you prepared to make lifestyle shifts and consistent sacrifices in service to Me, and to your overall growth as a person and a submissive?

Pay

I will consider applications from those who are current patrons, as well as serious individuals who have sent a substantial initial tribute. What do I consider substantial? Think maximum impact. For the purpose of inspiration you may want to review My lifestyle costs and personal desires here. Though suffice it to say your investment should feel sacrificial and decidedly provocative. It should trigger the somatic sensation of the thrill and uncertainty of risk as you make your move. You understand that high reward plays always require this of you, and you’re prepared for such a wager.

Domina San Francisco

SAN FRANCISCO DOMINATRIX

Be crumbled, so wildflowers will come up where you are. You’ve been stony for too many years. Try something different. Surrender.

-Rumi